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How Do You Know If You’re An Alcoholic?

Unlike normal afflictions such as diabetes, there is no test either for alcoholism or for a predisposition to it. Unfortunately, abnormal behavior and bad results such as physical deterioration, financial hardship, broken relationships and entanglements with the law often happen before it is clear that someone has the disease.

Yes, it is a disease according to the American Medical Association. That doesn’t mean we can use the disease concept as an excuse. As alcoholics we remain responsible for the awful things we did when we were in the throes of our active alcoholism. And we’re also responsible now that we’re sober for making reasonable amends and restitution where possible.

But the disease concept does explain why we’re different, why we react abnormally to ethyl alcohol. We have a “thing” in us. Whether it’s genetic or acquired by environmental experience is of no importance to the result. This “thing” makes some of us allergic to alcohol and, at the same time, with just one drink, produces an inexplicable craving for more. This abnormal reaction has been reported by many alcoholics, even when they don’t like the taste of the stuff!

Alcoholism has been called the disease of denial. With me it was more like delusion. The mental image I had of an alcoholic was a skid-row bum, homeless, unwashed, drinking cheap wine out of a paper bag. That picture could not have been more wrong for me. I was gainfully employed making good money, had a beautiful family and a comfortable suburban lifestyle. I was a model citizen, even president of our church council. There was no way I could be an alcoholic, right?

Wrong. It took several years of sobriety for me to understand that skid-row for me was a “yet-to-be” had I continued to drink long enough. I know now that you can find on skid row all types of individuals, all levels of education and experience from janitor to CEO, “from Yale to Jail” as some of my friends say.

My own experience was just like that of many other alcoholics, firmly locked on a path characterized by a progressive, fatal disease. In my case the progression was slow, more than 35 years. I didn’t see the gradual change for the worse that occurred over time.

It’s like aging. You look in the mirror every day but the changes are so slight and so slow you don’t notice how drastic the overall change has been until you pull out the photo albums and look back 20 years. Then you have the rude awakening; what happened to the Adonis or starlet you used to be? I didn’t recognize my alcoholic progression until I joined Alcoholics Anonymous. When my head cleared, a friend suggested I look over old photo albums. What I saw astonished me.

In my teens, when I had a more moderate connection with alcohol, the pictures showed a healthy, smiling, excited young dude.

Then in my twenties there was this more subdued guy, still confident but often depicted with a drink in his hands.

In my thirties and forties, the pictures were almost always of parties, almost always with a drink in hand. I also noticed the drinks had gradually gone from beer to hard stuff as I became more affluent. By then, the happy contented look on my face had changed to a more stunned expression. It was the deer in the headlights look, the red eyes shining like an Easter bunny.

So, after some time in AA, I started to see how my thinking and behavior was affected by the progression of this disease. Man, how I had changed.

I had stopped going to, or even considering, restaurants that did not serve “adult” beverages, no matter how good the food was. My predilection for venues offering alcohol carried over to public events as well. I was comforted by the fact that our church had an excellent Family Center equipped with a full bar that was well used at almost every function. As President of our Parish Council, I helped design that center for maximum enjoyment.

As a Yuppie in the seventies, I traveled at least 50% of the time on business. My company’s liberal expense account enabled me to drink profusely and I cooperated fully, often closing the hotel bar at 1 AM or later. The first three hours of any business meeting the next day were often lost to recovery from hangover. I thought this was normal.

We lived in Europe for several years. There we could and did buy good wines in the neighborhood supermarket at bargain prices. We also had a wine peddler visit our house where we conducted neighborhood tasting sessions, sort of the French equivalent of a Tupperware party. Within ten years of moving back to the states, I had gone from 25 ounce bottles of expensive Bordeaux’s to 4-liter bottles of Chateau Yesterday at $9 a clip. I didn’t notice that change happening.

I sank deeper and deeper into ever more frequent depressive cycles. On one Saturday, I found myself in the back yard riding my mower on a hot, sunny day. What shocked me was I couldn’t feel or hear anything, not the birds or wind, not even the mower and, even though the temperature was probably in the high eighties, I was cold. I came to only when my brother-in-law, on an unexpected visit, shook me awake. Of course we celebrated with a few drinks.

I didn’t understand that alcohol, as a chemical, is a serious depressant when consumed in the quantities I favored.

Trained as an engineer, I actually designed a bulk delivery system for white wine for the home. It included a 200 gallon epoxy-lined fiberglass tank, a 45 psi nitrogen pressurization system and a Tygon tube distribution system with taps in five rooms: family, kitchen, dining, master bedroom and back porch. I put this project on hold when it became apparent that state regulations were going to prevent me from receiving shipments from the local winery. I formed a major resentment towards the State of Pennsylvania, blaming big government for stunting my creativity.

So there were signs all along the way that something was wrong with my drinking (and thinking), but I was blind to the signals. Since I had never experienced the worse results of alcoholism such as repetitive job loss, multiple marriages, financial destruction or serious trouble with the law, I thought I was normal. I was just an enthusiastic social drinker, very enthusiastic.

It took a very embarrassing experience at a neighbor’s house one night to understand that I had a problem. In short, I got plastered, blacked out, fell off their front stoop, rolled down the hill and spread-eagled in the street. I didn’t (and still don’t) remember any of it. The details were reported to me by my wife weeks later. After that, I was fortunate to go to an AA meeting at the suggestion of my doctor. By the grace of God and the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous, I came to understand that I was indeed one of “them”. Today, I view that awakening as a miracle.

I’ve now been a member of AA for over 17 years and recently wrote a story of my experience under the pen name used for this article. It’s a 200 page novel, primarily based on my personal story, but enhanced with many of the peculiarities found in AA meetings. I’m not promoting AA, just trying to demystify it. To see more, go here: http://www.esober.com.

My wish is that every alcoholic or problem drinker gets sober by whatever method works for them, AA or any other means. Too many lives, families and friends have been devastated by this affliction.

The bottom line is no one, no one, can tell you that you’re an alcoholic because, as an alcoholic we can’t see it or we don’t care. But there are signs, common signals and similar patterns of behavior among us. The very idea that we have to control or manage our drinking is one of those signs.

Non-alcoholics don’t have to think about these things.

Ian is a middle class professional, father of three who entered Alcoholics Anonymous in 1990 and hasn’t had a drink since. He is the author of “S.O.B.E.R. - How the Irritating Acronyms of Alcoholics Anonymous Got One Drunk Sober”. Email: ian@esober.com. Website: http://www.esober.com . Ian Asotte is a pen name used to respect the AA tradition of anonymity at the level of press, radio and films.

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Alcoholics Anonymous Demystified

I’ve heard some people say AA is group therapy. Or it’s a self-help program. Or it’s a religion. Or maybe it’s a cult. Actually, Alcoholics Anonymous is none of these things.

AA is not group therapy, but it is therapeutic. The obvious difference between AA and group therapy is that in AA there is no trained therapist leading the group. There is no trained anything or anybody.

Also, to reduce what happens in AA to simple group psychotherapy sells the results of the program short. The program is more than mind games; it deals with three aspects of the disease: mental, physical and spiritual. A mental redirection or psychic change is part of the program but not the whole thing.

AA is not a self-help group, although, if you’re an alcoholic, you can help yourself a lot by doing the program. Recovery in AA is not Popular Mechanics for drinkers. Yes, there is a format, there is a “program”, but most members perform the program according to their own rules. You’re an AA member if you say so. Only you can say so, and you can’t get kicked out no matter how you perform (the only valid reason for kicking someone out of a meeting is if they disrupt it).

It’s not a religion. If AA is a religion, it’s the most irreverent religion I have ever come across. There are long time members that believe there is no God. In AA, we call them the same name as you do in normal circles; atheists. I have enjoyed some of the most perceptive discourses from our atheist friends (although I personally don’t understand how they stay sober with no belief in a Higher Power, but a significant number do).

I also know a number of agnostics in AA. A good friend of mine has 42 years sober (about 500 consecutive months). He readily admits he remains an agnostic to this day and he’s now 90. Agnosticism is not my cup of tea. My personal belief is that it’s like being a moderate politician; you’re too chicken to have solid beliefs. Make a decision dude! But I love that friend of mine; he’s like a grand pop to me and I smile every time I see him at a meeting.

There are a good number of AA members who disdain organized religion of any variety. They either felt repressed by it growing up or later developed a belief that the Almighty had abandoned them. Feeling abandoned by God is an easy concept to relate to if you’ve been deep in the throes of drinking for a long time. This group prefers to think of their belief system as spiritual rather than religious.

Then there are those, probably the majority of sober AA-ers, who continue to practice their birth religion until they die. They become better Catholics, better Presbyterians, better Muslims, better Buddhists etc. The various religious denominations by the way find no conflict between the teachings and practices of Alcoholics Anonymous and their own dogma, theology and liturgy. They don’t see us as a threat or in competition with them. If they are truly worried about us, why do so many AA meetings occur in the church basements of many different denominations?

AA is not a cult. There is no one person in charge (really), no devotion to a particular figure, historical or living, nor to a set of rules, ceremonies or liturgy. The nature of an alcoholic is rebellious. If you want to see and hear pandemonium break out, just suggest to a group of AA-ers they should approach the program in a certain way or even act at a meeting in some pre-approved manner. Then stand back and keep the exit door in view for your own safety.

So, if AA is none of these things, then what is it and why does it work? I think the best definition of what AA is, or at least what the program of recovery is, can be found in the third paragraph in the preface of the AA book “Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions”. It says:

“AA’s twelve steps are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which if practiced as a way of life, can dispel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole.”

There it is. It’s not a “program”. It’s not group therapy or a cult. It’s a way of life. In my experience this definition is right on the money. Yet Alcoholics Anonymous is not my whole life, just it’s core. When I try to practice the principles embodied in those steps in all my activities, things go better even if I don’t know why.

On that question, nobody really knows why it works, yet AA members spend a good deal of time in and out of meetings discussing how it works. They’ve even made an acronym out of H.O.W. They say it stands for Honesty, Openness and Willingness. Of course AA-ers make acronyms out of every word they can (I have a list of more than 30 acronyms commonly used in AA meetings).

But ask an AA-er why the program works and, after they’ve stopped stuttering and stammering about spirituality, the Steps, a Higher Power and numerous other things, they usually finish by saying: “Who cares why it works, it just does.”

I’ve now been a member of AA for over 17 years and recently wrote a story of my experience under the pen name used for this article. It’s a 200 page novel, primarily based on my personal story, but enhanced with many of the peculiarities found in AA meetings.

I’m not promoting AA, just trying to demystify it. To see more, go here: http://www.esober.com.

Ian is a middle class professional, father of three who entered Alcoholics Anonymous in 1990 and hasn’t had a drink since. He is the author of “S.O.B.E.R. - How the Irritating Acronyms of Alcoholics Anonymous Got One Drunk Sober”. Email: ian@esober.com. Website: http://www.esober.com

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Discount Drug & Alcohol Rehab Treatment

There is help available for almost everyone. People that need recovery have choices. The financial strain of recovery is a real issue for families. In today’s uncertain economy, it is often the reason that many delay getting the proper help for their loved one. How much does treatment have to cost? Who pays?

The average cost for a one-month program is about $20,000. Prices usually begin around $10,000 and go up to $40,000 or more. This is a lot of money–seemingly out of reach for most families. But when you consider how much money the addict has blown on drug and alcohol use in the past, and how beneficial this treatment program will be, it is well worth it.

There are ways to defray the cost of treatment. First of all, some employers are willing to help cover the cost; all you have to do is ask. Some insurance companies will cover the cost as well, so families need to find out what their insurance plan will and will not cover. However, many treatment facilities unfortunately do not accept insurance. Dealing with insurance companies is often a paperwork nightmare, and some centers do not have the staff to keep up with what it requires.

Moreover, some insurance companies try to dictate just what type of treatment they will cover and for how long, and this may not fit with a treatment center’s philosophy or diagnosis. However, there are centers that do take insurance, and usually they will make all the phone calls concerning coverage and handle the details for you.

If the employer won’t help cover the cost of a treatment program, and the insurance plan doesn’t cover it–or if it does but the treatment center won’t accept insurance money–you should know that many facilities will take people for less than the standard fee–sometimes much less.

Occasionally, patients are able to get ten to fifty percent (or more) off of the normal rate.

Some centers will even let you make payments on a discounted price. In these cases, they are essentially loaning you the money in spite of credit history. How do you find out about these discounts? Ask. That’s right–simply ask if there is any way to get a reduced fee.

How are they able to charge less? There may be some scholarship money available, or sometimes a hospital or a graduate of the treatment program will help cover the cost. If a treatment center sees that a person is able to pay only a portion of the cost, and if it is obvious that the person is motivated to begin recovery, those at the center will be motivated to help as well.

For people working in this field, drug treatment is both a business and a passion. A high percentage of counselors are also recovering people. For most, it’s not all about the money. Call around. Ask a lot of questions. You just might be surprised what you find out.

So, what other forms of treatment or support are available?

Twelve-Step Programs

Probably the most obvious are the twelve-step programs. AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and NA (Narcotics Anonymous) are literally everywhere, all the time, across the world, and they are free.

Al-Anon is also available to the family member who needs support or information. These groups all have listed phone numbers and will give you information twenty-four hours a day.

Is AA or NA appropriate for everyone? This is a tough question. You can sure check it out for yourself. Discourage your friend or family member from making a judgment too quickly after visiting just one group. Each group has its own personality. Sometimes it takes visiting several to find a group that the addict will feel comfortable with. There are different meetings in all parts of town, including: men’s, women’s, open meetings (where a person doesn’t have to be an alcoholic to attend), and speaker meetings.

Some people in certain professional fields might not feel comfortable attending AA or NA meetings, even though the names of those attending, and the content of such meetings, are confidential. Why? Some people are very visible in their community. If a person is a doctor, dentist, police officer, city official, pastor, judge, lawyer, school-teacher, swim coach, school counselor, CEO, pharmacist, pilot, or bus driver, it might be very difficult to stay anonymous.

Most people wouldn’t want to jeopardize their career to get support in such a potentially public manner. I wouldn’t want to meet my surgeon at an AA meeting! Some people may need to find a different resource, but more often than not, twelve-step groups are very beneficial.

Spin-offs of the traditional twelve-step groups include faith-based groups like Celebrate Recovery, Christians in Recovery and the Salvation Army. The Salvation Army also offers free in-patient recovery programs in some cities.

There is help available for almost everyone. People that need recovery have choices, ranging from those that cost absolutely nothing to such high-priced options as Promises recovery center in California.

Help is out there. Just ask.

Over the past two decades I’ve seen addicts and families recover from both mild and severe addiction problems. Sadly, there are others who give up the fight before they even get started. Finding a good support group or counselor doesn’t always happen overnight. Get referrals, talk to others who had similar problems, and be persistent.

Determination always pays off.

(article excerpted from the book “Why Don’t They Just QUIT?”)

Joe Herzanek, a man who battled his own demons of addiction over twenty-five years ago, says, “I know people can change. If I can do it, anyone can!”

A recovering person himself, Joe is the president and founder of Changing Lives Foundation and author of the new book “Why Don’t They Just QUIT?” As an addiction counselor in Colorado he has spent thirteen years working in the criminal justice system.

His passion for helping men and women struggling with addiction, as well as their family members and friends, inspire him to offer hope and solutions.

Joe offers words of encouragement: “Addiction is not a hopeless situation,” he writes. “Addicts and alcoholics aren’t crazy, and they can quit.”

Joe and his wife Judy have three children, Jami, Jake, and Jessica, and enjoy the beautiful Colorado outdoors with their two Cairn Terriers, Lewis and Clark.

http://www.whydonttheyjustquit.com

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Top Ten Signs You Might Be An Alcoholic

Alcoholism is a serious, fatal, progressive disease.

Nevertheless, humor is often encountered in Alcoholics Anonymous meetings. It helps to relieve tension and uplift spirits. Here’s an example of such humor, a collection of thoughts I’ve heard in AA meetings that could be thought of as the top ten signs you might be an alcoholic:

1. Your bar bill last month was twice your mortgage payment.

2. You don’t understand why people have problems quitting. You do it every day, usually by midnight.

3. You called the city recycling center to see if there are covers for your recycling bins.

4. You’re getting more and more criticism from your spouse or lover but your real worry is making sure they don’t meet each other.

5. You petitioned the city recycling center for more frequent pickups to reduce the 5 AM rattle that echoes through the neighborhood.

6. You were relieved on your last business trip when you woke up to see that the person next to you in bed was of the opposite sex.

7. You honestly believe your drinking buddies at the saloon are “mentors”.

8. You just wore out the motor on your third trash compactor this year.

9. You designed a white wine bulk delivery and distribution system for your home.

10. You adopted the Anheuser-Busch shield for your family coat of arms.

I’ve now been a member of AA for over 17 years and recently wrote a story of my experience under the pen name used for this article. It’s a 200 page novel, primarily based on my personal story, but enhanced with many of the peculiarities, both funny and spiritual, found in AA meetings.

I’m not promoting AA, just trying to demystify it. There is a humorous vein to this book that I hope all, alcoholic and non-alcoholic, will enjoy.

Ian is a middle class professional, father of three who entered Alcoholics Anonymous in 1990 and hasn’t had a drink since. He is the author of “S.O.B.E.R. - How the Irritating Acronyms of Alcoholics Anonymous Got One Drunk Sober”.

Email: ian@esober.com

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Drug Addiction

Addiction to drugs is a result of an individual developing a strange dependency on a prescription or non-prescription drug in order to relieve pain after an accident or injury. Usually, most pain killers result in a kind of habit forming. In this case, the individual craves for the drug. Drug addiction can also occur when an individual chooses to abuse his or her body via taking illegal drugs. Addiction to any type of drug is a serious matter.

One may require to adopt more than one way to overcome an addiction. Some may be lucky to overcome this addiction but some fail to remain clean for a long time. Relapses have become common under these cases.

It is true that most patients are able to complete a detox program successfully & eliminate the foreign substances from their body but the emotional distress that resulted in using the drug initially may still exist. This is the reason that some people continue using drug to escape their pain.

These days, rehab centers are providing ongoing support to drug abuses as soon as they leave a program.

Former patients are advised to attend therapy sessions that serve as a support group. One-on-one counseling is also provided widely these days in order to help drug abuses to cope with their trials.

The symptoms related to drug addiction cannot be defeated easily. Some drug addicts show clear signs of addiction. However, others are capable to hide their addiction really well. It may easily take about weeks or even months prior to anyone get a clue about the problem. A drug abuser is moody & can be quite irritable. He or she can even exhibit signs of depression or bipolar. Another common sign of addiction to drug may be stealing or borrowing moneys for buying drugs, sleeping & even an overall change in behavior. People try to stop using drug without going for a treatment. This is not effective. Some are able to come out of this addiction but a relapse is often indicated. The best way to get rid of drug addiction is to get professional treatment.

In order to find symptoms of drug addiction, you need to look for intense cravings for a particular drug.

You would want to use this medicine again & again. As soon as you stop using it, you may develop some unpleasant physical reactions. There are also certain drugs that cause physical dependence as compared to the others. It is very difficult to break a drug addiction. However, you should not consider it impossible. With good support from your family, friends & doctor & others, you can easily overcome your dependence on drug.

Here is a list of some of the drugs that you can become addicted to:

a) Cannabis compounds such as marijuana & hashish.

b) Central nervous system depressants such as barbiturates, benzodiazepines, amobarbital, phenobarbital, secobarbital, diazepam, alprazolam, lorazeopam, oxazepam, clonazepam & chlordiazepoxide.

c) Central nervous system stimulants such as amphetamines, cocaine, methamphetamine & methylphenidate.

d) Designer drugs such as synthetic compounds.

e) Hallucinogens, LSD, ketamine & phencyclidine.

f) Inhalants such as solvents, glue, paint & nitrous & nitrous oxide.

g) Opiates. such as narcotic, painkilling drugs, heroin, morphine, methadone, oxycodone & codeine

It is important to speak to your doctor as soon as you come to know that you have been addicted to a particular drug.

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Alcohol Addiction

Alcohol addiction or alcoholism can be defined as a compulsive requirement for an intoxicating drink that is derived from a fruit or fermented grain. The drink may be anything from wine, beer, whiskey or rum.

Intake of alcohol becomes addiction when a person craves for consumption of alcohol & is unable to limit the drink. A person can be termed as alcoholic if he or she experiences, certain withdrawal symptoms like sweating, anxiety, nausea. A person can also be called an alcoholic if he wants to have greater amounts of alcohol to experience a high.

Most people think that having a strong will to stop drinking is enough to give up alcohol. However, the process is quite complicating. When a process becomes alcoholic, the craving is so great that it actually suppresses the ability to stop consuming. Most alcoholic requires adept assistance to give up alcoholism.

There are several causes that lead to alcoholism. People may be forced to have alcohol due to the environment they live in or the traumatic experiences they have in their lives.

Alcoholism has a lot of bad effects of the individual. It can lead to some serious trouble. It can also be physically & mentally destructive. Most of the crimes, suicides, accidental deaths & murders are committed under the influence of alcohol.

Several health problems are associated with the use of alcohol such as cancer, diseases of the liver, brain damage, cancer & heart diseases. An alcoholic who does not give up alcohol may reduce his life expectancy by 10 to 15 years.

Here are some of the ill effects of alcohol on health:

a) Excess intake of alcohol can destroy brain cells & ultimately lead to brain damage.

b) Alcohol works towards disturbing the overall structure & function of the central nervous system. It hinders the ability to consolidate, retrieve & process information.

c) Consuming alcohol in moderate amounts can put great effect on cognitive abilities.

d) Consumption of alcohol in large amounts interfere the process of oxygen supply of the brain & causes a blackout under the stage of fully drunk.

e) Addiction of alcohol may result in inflammation of the mouth, stomach & esophagus. It can also result in cancers of stomach, mouth & esophagus.

f) Drinking alcohol in large amounts may result in irregular heartbeats. The addict can also experience a greater risk of high blood pressure, heart damage & heart attack.

g) Intake of alcohol interferes in vision & disrupts sexual function. It also reduces circulation, increases the chances for malnutrition & excessive water retention.

h) The addict may also a suffer from slurred speech, lack of coordination, impaired attention, impaired judgment, unsteady when walking or standing & lack of sleep.

Here are some symptoms of alcohol addiction:

a) The patient develops a sense of compulsion to drink.

b) The addict may choose to drink soon after walking in order to reduce alcohol withdrawal feeling.

c) An alcohol addict tends to develop a reduced ability to control over drinking.

d) The addict usually organizes his lifestyle around drinking.

One cannot overcome alcohol addiction alone. The addict requires good assistance from others in order to find recovery. Most people seek counseling & visit rehab centers to get rid of alcoholism.

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Dealing With Addiction in the Family

Addiction can be defined as a family disease. It is a fact that the entire family suffers with the addict. This is the reason that professionals consider treatment of the family to be the part of the whole treatment of addiction. First, it is important to understand that the tendency to become addicted is genetically transmitted. This is proved by a research that has been undertaken to know the exact reason of raise in the cases of addiction.

When it comes to the family suffering, there are a number of ways a family suffers with the addict. According to a study, about one third of the families in the United States have at least one member in the family with a substance abuse problem. About one-fourth of this problem exists in nuclear family. In such families, there are more chances of divorce, domestic violence, anxiety, child abuse, depression and general medical problems.

When an addict & the whole family gets into the recovery mode, many effects of depression are supposes to go away in a couple of years. However, there needs to be an active participation from the addict, the family & the recovery professional.

It may be quite difficult to deal with addiction in the family as it’s hard to see a family member in trouble but one needs to be strong enough to cope up with such troubles. The most important thing to remember is that there are many important issues to explore as soon as someone in your family requires help. First, you need to make out whether you are contributing to the core problem or working towards eliminating it.

Here are certain contributions you may be making to increase the problem:

• Making yourself believe that you are responsible for the whole scenario rather than caring for yourself.

• Getting judgmental towards the addicted person.

• Concealing the addict’s behavior & covering up for them.

• Doing certain things for the addict that they require to carry out all by themselves.

• Accepting your lack of control & giving up after some trials.

• Paying attention to your feelings & needs rather than taking care of the addict.

Here are certain important facts that you must know regarding how to deal with addiction:

• The family must suggest some actions to the addict that are required to help him get out of the addiction.

• Individual counseling also works really well with the addict. Here, a professional puts an effort to provide some cool tips to get out of the situation and fight addiction bravely.

• People who are fighting against a drug or alcohol addiction, a variety of detox treatments are suggested and these treatments may be conducted in a hospital, specific clinic or even a treatment facility.

• Certain types of addiction also require adept or special type of medication. For instance, a drug called nicorette helps a lot to those addicted to smoking.

• One can also contact self recovery groups where special help is provided to addicts. Addicts are taught how to recover & maintain their self esteem here.

• Different types of out-patient facilities are also available where the addict is provided adept treatment. He needs to visit where facilities regularly in order to meet their program expectations.

The task of helping an addict overcome his problem may be difficult but with hard work & determination, it is possible.

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Drug Addiction is a Disease

Admitting that drug addiction is a disease seems trite on the surface, but people look at drug addiction differently than they view heart disease, or cancer, or the common cold. There is always blame attached to drug addiction. There is always an accusatory finger to be pointed at the one who suffers from drug addiction disease.

Many in society assert that the addict is entirely to blame. There is not the same kind of sympathy for drug addicts that there is for smokers with cancer, or people with diabetes and heart disease. They are not viewed as people suffering from a disease.

The reasoning for society not being sympathetic to the addict is simple. People get hooked because they chose to take the drug in the first place. John Q. Public sees it that way and he can take the moral high ground because he didn’t take drugs and somebody else did. Maybe John Q. took the drugs but didn’t get hooked. People seeking a thrill might try a street drug like crack cocaine, methamphetamine, or heroin because of the “rush,” the “high” they produce and chronic users are those who have developed a need far beyond merely wanting a thrill.

Prescription medications that are abused, such as OxyContin, are coveted because the effect is intense and even greater than the heroin they get on the street. Even if they don’t want a thrill, people can still become addicted to prescription medications just because they take more than the prescribed amount to feel better. In either case, nobody asked for their life to be ruined.

It may start innocently enough, but people get out of control. What started as a lark ends up as an albatross around their neck. It hangs there and the user can’t get rid of it. Regardless of how the disease started, the person is no longer in control of it and cannot break free of the disease’s power. People may have a few drinks, or enjoy a couple of trips to the buffet table, but sooner or later their body says it’s time to stop. With the addict, that “thing” that says stop isn’t there. They don’t get enough and continue, even long after another person has stopped. It’s the inability to stop that causes so much pain and suffering.

Whatever the drug of choice, intervention and treatment are necessary for the addict to return to a healthy lifestyle. The problem for the addict is that society has attached a stigma to the disease. Bad people are drug addicts. Weak people are drug addicts. Undesirable people are drug addicts. No, people become addicts; good people, nice people. The well-educated, the blue collar, the rich, the poor, all colors and types are all potential addicts. They can all contract the disease. No one is exempt.

Ned Wicker at http://www.Drug-Addiction-Support.org

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What Can You Reasonably Expect From Recovery?

There are a number of different perspectives on the subject of recovery. Unfortunately, some are not as accurate as others; and some, even if unintentionally, short a person on what he or she can reasonably expect from recovery.

When you set yourself to the task of recovery, one thing which you can reasonably expect is the hope and the opportunity to live the rest of your life without drugs or alcohol. The key to this concept is that there are two factors involved– the hope of being able to accomplish this, and the opportunity to be able to accomplish it. While you have probably already been cautioned that the path to success is to go through each clean and sober day one day at a time, recovery means that you will have both the hope and the opportunity for “clean and sober” being permanent.

There are other things which you can reasonably expect from recovery, however. One is that regardless of the state your physical health has become from a long period of damaging substances, you will have the chance to improve your health, as well as your mental and emotional well-being. Even if you have suffered health-damaging consequences as a result of drugs or alcohol, you can reasonably expect some degree of improvement.

In recovery, you can also reasonably expect new options and choices to open up in your life. When you are no longer bound to the limitations placed on you by drugs and alcohol, you will not only find that you have many options which you had not previously thought of, you will also become more and more sure of yourself in being able to make the choices that are right for you.

One of the best ways to look at the subject is that whatever the drugs and alcohol have taken away from you, recovery will give you the chance to get back. This is not to say that you will be able to regain everything which you may have lost, but that you will no longer have to forfeit the positive aspects of life in favor of the negativity you have experienced from drugs and alcohol. In other words, recovery will give you the chance to reconstruct all of those things that are the most important to you, and the chance to rebuild your life.

You cannot get back lost time– but you can have plenty of options for what you would like to do with all of the time you still have ahead of you. This is only one example of how you can begin to put your life in order. As you proceed in recovery and begin to make substantial progress, it should not take very long before you start to see a world of choices and opportunities opening to you that were not there during the period of time when you were drinking and using drugs. When this starts to happen, it is quite possible that you will be able to answer the question for yourself– for you will see how much you really can expect from recovery.

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What Do You Want To Do With Your Time?

Time can be a very interesting topic indeed! If you really think about it, there are only two ways of using time– you can use it for some kind of constructive purpose, or you can use it in an idle manner. The best point about time is that when it comes down to it, the decision as to which of these you would prefer is completely up to you.

If you are one hundred percent honest, however, you can see that whether you use drugs and alcohol or not has a lot to do with this point. The fact of the matter is that if your lifestyle consists of drinking and using, it is not as likely that you have been using your time for constructive purposes. After all, isn’t “hanging out” a big part of this lifestyle?

If you have been giving up far too much of your time smoking pot, drinking alcohol, and hanging out with your like minded friends, you may not have noticed how much of your time has been passing you by. You may have been so caught up in it that time became less meaningful in general, and you may also have experienced the negative effects such as lack of motivation, physical sluggishness, and other factors which have all added up to a sense of inertia.

When you are taking on the task of recovery, changing your focus on how you spend your time is a great step. Instead of wasting precious hours, days, or more, you can concentrate on pursuits which will be much more productive, much more meaningful, much more enjoyable. You may even begin to feel a newfound sense of urgency about time– the wonderful new desire to accomplish something. Whether this “something” is work-oriented, or focused on your family, or simply taking part in your favorite hobbies and pastimes, you will quickly gain a deeper appreciation of time when you are using it to a positive advantage.

Drinking and using drugs may have claimed a lot of time out of your life thus far. While it is regretful that none of that time can ever be reconstructed and used for a better purpose, this fact alone can prove to be a positive motivating factor– you now have the opportunity to create your moments and days and years from worthwhile use of your time. How you define what is worthwhile is, of course, entirely up to you– all you really need to do in order to begin is to put some intense thought into what is important and meaningful to you, and you will be able to see how your time can be most appropriately used.

If you have been simply going with the flow of idleness, learning that your new life does not need to be that way can be a very positive beginning. As no human being knows how much time he or she will ultimately have, wasting none and using it all for positive purposes is an essential key to a happy and fulfilled life.

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